2 Corinthians 2:1-11 - Lesson on Bad Decisions: Our study of 2 Corinthians 2 discusses four things we can do when those around us are making bad decisions, including showing compassion, not judgment.
BAD DECISIONS
What do we do when the people that we love are making bad decisions?
Do we try to correct them, or do we remain silent?
In today’s study, we will see what the Bible has to say on the subject, and the first thing that we will point out is that the Bible teaches us not to judge them.
DO NOT JUDGE
There are many scriptures that tell us not to judge others. For our lesson, we have selected the following three:
- “Do not judge so that you will not be judged. For in the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you. Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ and behold, the log is in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye. – Mathew 7:1-5,
- “Do not judge, and you will not be judged; and do not condemn, and you will not be condemned; pardon, and you will be pardoned. Give, and it will be given to you. They will pour into your lap a good measure—pressed down, shaken together, and running over. For by your standard of measure it will be measured to you in return.” – Luke 6:37-38,
- “Do not speak against one another, brethren. He who speaks against a brother or judges his brother, speaks against the law and judges the law; but if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge of it. There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the One who is able to save and to destroy; but who are you who judge your neighbor?” – James 4:11-12.
When somebody we love is making poor decisions, it is not our place to judge them.
Judgment is reserved for God.
SHOW COMPASSION
The second thing that we will point out in today’s lesson, is that Christians aresupposed to show compassion and not judgment.
People respond better to compassionthan judgment.
We understand this when it comes to ourselves, however, sometimes we forget when it comes to others.
Jesus said:
- “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden; nor does anyone light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on the lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in Heaven.” – Mathew 5:14-16.
For us to be the light of the world and the salt of the earth, we need to understand and correctly apply the following scriptures about compassion:
- “Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.” - Ephesians 4:32,
- “When Jesus went ashore, He saw a large crowd, and He felt compassion for them because they were like sheep without a shepherd; and He began to teach them many things.” - Mark 6:34,
- “So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness,humility, gentleness, and patience.” - Colossians 3:12,
- “When He went ashore, He saw a large crowd, and felt compassion for them and healed their sick.” - Mathew 14:14.
TEACH THE BIBLE
The third thing that we will point out in today’s lesson is the importance of teaching the Bible to others. Especially, when people are making poor decisions.
The Apostle Paul wrote to Timothy:
- “All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness; so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work.” – 2 Timothy 3:16-17.
We can teach, reproof, correct, and train without judging.
We accomplish this by quoting the Bible and letting the Bible speak for itself.
One of the best ways to help somebody that is making bad decisions is to share with them God's words, and God’s thoughts.
Sharing the right scripture at the right time is a blessing, provided the words are spoken in love, and without judgment.
PRAYING
The fourth and final thing that we can do when somebody is making bad decisions is to pray for them.
Throughout the Bible, we read about the importance of prayer, and yet our prayer life is something that can be easily neglected if we are not careful.
When somebody is making poor decisions, a fantastic thing for us to do is to lift them up in prayer!
As you read the following four scriptures, think about the importance of prayer:
- “Therefore, confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another so that you may be healed. The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much.” - James 5:16,
- “With all prayer and petition pray at all times in the Spirit.” - Ephesians 6:18,
- “For this reason also, since the day we heard of it, we have not ceased to pray for you and to ask that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding.” - Colossians 1:9,
- “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven.” - Mathew 5:43-44.
CONCLUSION
Watching somebody make poor decisions is a hard thing to do.
Especially if this person is a family member or somebody that we love.
In these situations, we need to search the scriptures and see what it says we are to do, and not to do.
In today’s lesson, we highlighted four things, supported by scripture, that we must keep in mind when somebody we know is making bad decisions:
- Do not judge them,
- Show them compassion,
- Teach them God’s word,
- Pray for them.
If we do these four things, we not only align with what the scriptures tell us to do, we put ourselves in the best possible position to be helpful.
We will end today’s lesson with the following words spoken by Jesus during His Sermon on the Mount:
- “In everything, therefore, treat people the same way you want them to treat you, for this is the Law and the Prophets” –Mathew 7:12.
Men's Bible Study Lesson: 2 Corinthians 2:1-11
Title: The Power of Forgiveness and Restoration
Objective: To explore the themes of forgiveness, comfort, and the impact of our actions on the community of believers as illustrated in 2 Corinthians 2.
In 2 Corinthians 2:1-11, Paul is primarily addressing the Corinthian church about the need to forgive and restore a repentant sinner who had caused significant offense within the community, urging them to move past the pain and not let Satan exploit their unforgiveness by encouraging them to reconcile with the individual and reaffirm their love for him; this is highlighted through the metaphor of the "aroma of Christ" representing the positive impact of the gospel message on those who receive it.
Key points about 2 Corinthians 2:
Focus on Forgiveness:
The main theme is the importance of forgiveness, particularly towards a member of the church who has repented for their sin.
Addressing a Painful Situation:
Paul acknowledges the pain and grief caused by the offense within the church and encourages them to move towards healing.
Warning Against Satan's Schemes:
Paul warns that holding onto unforgiveness can play into Satan's hands, allowing him to exploit division within the community.
"Aroma of Christ":
This metaphor is used to describe the impact of the gospel message, which can be a sweet fragrance to those being saved, but a stench of death to those who reject it.
Opening Prayer
Begin with a brief prayer, asking for guidance and understanding as you delve into the Scriptures.
Scripture Reading
Read 2 Corinthians 2:1-17 (consider reading from a version like NIV or ESV for clarity).
Discussion Questions
Contextual Understanding:
What do you think was the main reason Paul wrote this letter to the Corinthians?
A) To congratulate them on their success
B) To address issues of sin and encourage reconciliation
C) To ask for financial support
D) To invite them to a church event
Verses 1-4 – The Pain of Paul:
Paul mentions that he “decided not to make another painful visit.” What do you think he means by “painful”?
A) It was hard to travel
B) The visit would cause emotional distress
C) It was a long visit
D) He was not welcomed
Verses 5-8 – The Importance of Forgiveness:
Why do you think Paul emphasizes forgiveness strongly in this context?
A) He wants to show he is in charge
B) Forgiveness is crucial for community healing
C) He enjoys confrontation
D) He wants to avoid responsibility
Verses 9-11 – The Power of Obedience:
Paul states that he wrote to test their obedience. How does obedience to God’s commands influence our relationships?
A) It creates distance between people
B) It fosters trust and unity
C) It leads to conflict
D) It has no effect
Verses 12-13 – The Call to Ministry:
Paul speaks of being led in triumphal procession. What does this imagery convey about the Christian life?
A) It’s always easy and victorious
B) It involves struggle but results in victory through Christ
C) It’s focused on personal success
D) It means staying away from challenges
Verses 14-17 – The Aroma of Christ:
Paul describes believers as the “aroma of Christ.” What do you think this metaphor means?
A) A pleasant fragrance that attracts others to God
B) A strong smell that repels people
C) Something that is only for special occasions
D) An obligation rather than a privilege
Application
Encourage each participant to reflect on a specific relationship or situation where they can practice forgiveness or obedience this week.
Challenge them to think about how they can be more of an “aroma of Christ” in their daily lives.
Closing Reflection
Spend a few moments in silence, allowing everyone to think about the discussions and what they’ve learned.
Invite anyone who feels comfortable to share their reflections or commitments.
Closing Prayer
Conclude with prayer, thanking God for His grace and asking for strength to apply the lessons learned.
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